No, I’m not encouraging a comeback by the ’80s boy band, so you can relax. I was thinking about my high school experience the other day, though. I transferred to a new (larger) school my sophomore year. About 80% of the students had gone to school together since preschool. They knew each other, their parents…

I recently attended the Hope Is Alive (HIA) Inspiring Lunch in Oklahoma City. The theme was “Not Normal,” referring to the differences between HIA and many of the other addiction recovery programs. In recovery, we often refer to people who are not addicts as “normies.” We love normies, but we are grateful that we are not normal.…

John Fitzherbert, in his book, The Boke of Husbandry (1534), wrote, “The dogge must lerne it in his youthe, or els never”. Over time, this became the proverb we now know as, “You can’t teach an old dog new tricks.” (I have to admit that even thinking the name “Fitzherbert” brings back a mental track of Renée Zellweger…

Women couldn’t vote nationally in the U.S. until 1920. While the Civil Rights Act of 1964 made discrimination against women illegal, it wasn’t until 1978 that the Pregnancy Discrimination Act made it illegal to discriminate against women based on pregnancy. That’s right—it has been less than 50 years since it was “OK” to push aside…

If you were a young man or woman in the fall of 1966 (I was two, going on three), you probably slow danced to the song “Cherish” by The Association. One of the original members (there have been over 40), Terry Kirkman, penned the lyrics: Cherish is the word I use to describeAll the feeling…

Eagles have 20/5 binocular vision, which gives them the ability to accurately judge distance, from a long distance. Binocular means two eyes. Post surgery, I can only see out of one for a while, so I am currently monocular and, therefore, have no depth perception. You don’t always appreciate what you have until it’s gone. I miss…

A dear friend of mine changed my life recently without saying a word (well, for him, it wasn’t very many words). I hadn’t seen him in a while, and when we got together for dinner with our wives, it was obvious he was doing well physically. He had lost weight, gained muscle, and looked rested…

There is a new mountain bike trail near us that is “bench cut”—meaning that on one side of the trail, the ground rises steeply, and on the other side, it falls away, almost like a cliff. The trail is not hard, but the cost of failure is high. I know this not because I ride…

When I drive my wife’s car, the car and I end up in an argument. Her car has a system that attempts to push you back into your lane if you are drifting out of it without signaling. The car’s estimation of when I am leaving my lane does not align with mine, and the…

I recently had surgery to reattach the retina in my left eye. There’s no way to be certain how it detached, but it had been getting worse in stages for a while. I just noticed problems with my vision recently, but once the eye doctor saw it, things shifted into high gear. Post-op, I was…